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  1. battista adattini

    Saying “no” seems like an easy thing to do. No, is just one simple two
    letter word. Then why do so many people have a problem saying “no” to
    something they don’t want to do? The answer is when people say no to
    someone, especially a friend, they feel guilty. They might feel like they
    are hurting their friends feelings by telling them no, or they might feel
    like they won’t fit in with certain people if they say “no”. The most
    important thing to remember is that nobody can force another person to do
    something they don’t want to do. The number one ingredient to get over the
    fear of saying “no” is to learn to be assertive.
    Let us say that your friend is having a bad day. His car broke down and he
    has to pick his kids up from school in twenty minutes. He asks you to
    borrow your car for about an hour. You let him borrow it and he brings it
    back right on time and he thanks you. The next week his wife has his car
    and he asks to borrow your car again. You really need it and don’t want to
    let him borrow it. So you make up an excuse and he responds by telling you
    that he just needs it for a minute and he reminds you that you let him
    borrow it last week. Now you kind of feel obligated to let him borrow your
    car but you really need it yourself. He starts telling you that you’re not
    a good friend and you start feeling guilty. Stop and think about it. It is
    your car that you bought with your own money and it is your only form of
    transportation. All you have to do is tell him “NO.” You don’t owe him any
    explanation. It’s not your fault that his wife has his car, and if he is a
    true friend, then you not letting him borrow your car will not mess up your
    friendship. If it does then he is the type of person that you don’t need as
    a friend.
    Saying “no” to a phone solicitor, or to a car salesman should be easier
    than saying to no to a friend. This is not always the case. Some people
    have just as much trouble saying “no” to a phone solicitor?

  2. Kevin Gutierrez

    Wow you lost seven pounds can you give me one i could use it

  3. MinerlyCrafted

    fix your fucking intro there are at least 30 comments on each of your
    videos saying this

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