Saying “no” seems like an easy thing to do. No, is just one simple two
letter word. Then why do so many people have a problem saying “no” to
something they don’t want to do? The answer is when people say no to
someone, especially a friend, they feel guilty. They might feel like they
are hurting their friends feelings by telling them no, or they might feel
like they won’t fit in with certain people if they say “no”. The most
important thing to remember is that nobody can force another person to do
something they don’t want to do. The number one ingredient to get over the
fear of saying “no” is to learn to be assertive.
Let us say that your friend is having a bad day. His car broke down and he
has to pick his kids up from school in twenty minutes. He asks you to
borrow your car for about an hour. You let him borrow it and he brings it
back right on time and he thanks you. The next week his wife has his car
and he asks to borrow your car again. You really need it and don’t want to
let him borrow it. So you make up an excuse and he responds by telling you
that he just needs it for a minute and he reminds you that you let him
borrow it last week. Now you kind of feel obligated to let him borrow your
car but you really need it yourself. He starts telling you that you’re not
a good friend and you start feeling guilty. Stop and think about it. It is
your car that you bought with your own money and it is your only form of
transportation. All you have to do is tell him “NO.” You don’t owe him any
explanation. It’s not your fault that his wife has his car, and if he is a
true friend, then you not letting him borrow your car will not mess up your
friendship. If it does then he is the type of person that you don’t need as
a friend.
Saying “no” to a phone solicitor, or to a car salesman should be easier
than saying to no to a friend. This is not always the case. Some people
have just as much trouble saying “no” to a phone solicitor?
Umm… the intro is… interesting??
Tech Yeah!, I like his intro! ?
Saying “no” seems like an easy thing to do. No, is just one simple two
letter word. Then why do so many people have a problem saying “no” to
something they don’t want to do? The answer is when people say no to
someone, especially a friend, they feel guilty. They might feel like they
are hurting their friends feelings by telling them no, or they might feel
like they won’t fit in with certain people if they say “no”. The most
important thing to remember is that nobody can force another person to do
something they don’t want to do. The number one ingredient to get over the
fear of saying “no” is to learn to be assertive.
Let us say that your friend is having a bad day. His car broke down and he
has to pick his kids up from school in twenty minutes. He asks you to
borrow your car for about an hour. You let him borrow it and he brings it
back right on time and he thanks you. The next week his wife has his car
and he asks to borrow your car again. You really need it and don’t want to
let him borrow it. So you make up an excuse and he responds by telling you
that he just needs it for a minute and he reminds you that you let him
borrow it last week. Now you kind of feel obligated to let him borrow your
car but you really need it yourself. He starts telling you that you’re not
a good friend and you start feeling guilty. Stop and think about it. It is
your car that you bought with your own money and it is your only form of
transportation. All you have to do is tell him “NO.” You don’t owe him any
explanation. It’s not your fault that his wife has his car, and if he is a
true friend, then you not letting him borrow your car will not mess up your
friendship. If it does then he is the type of person that you don’t need as
a friend.
Saying “no” to a phone solicitor, or to a car salesman should be easier
than saying to no to a friend. This is not always the case. Some people
have just as much trouble saying “no” to a phone solicitor?
loving your intro :)?
should i get this or a nike fuel band se?
yes
yayyy for the rap show 😀
Change your horrible intro/outro
Wow you lost seven pounds can you give me one i could use it
korean sub titles??
fix your fucking intro there are at least 30 comments on each of your
videos saying this
looks like a COD game
Please i beg you change the intro sound its annoying
Misfit Shine. ?? ???.?